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RELATIONSHIP TRAUMA RELEASE AND NERVOUS SYSTEM THERAPY

Advanced trauma informed therapy for attachment wounds, relational trauma, and emotional dysregulation.

SCHEDULE YOUR 45-MIN

Are you ready to take the first step towards a more fulfilling relationship together? Let’s start with a 45-minute consultation. This call is an opportunity for both of you to ask any questions and learn about the unique strategies and techniques we can use to help achieve your relationship goals. There’s no pressure and no sales pitch—just clear, helpful information tailored to your needs as a couple.

INITIAL CONSULTATION

Not all relationship difficulties are resolved through insight and communication alone. When past experiences, attachment wounds, or unresolved emotional stress remain stored in the nervous system, patterns of reactivity, shutdown, anxiety, and relational distress often persist despite therapy.

Relationship trauma release at Renewed Life provides specialised nervous system based therapy to help release stored emotional stress, regulate the nervous system, and support deeper healing from relational trauma.

This work supports individuals and couples whose relationship patterns are driven by unresolved trauma rather than conscious choice.

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a man taking a picture of a woman holding a cell phone

WHO THIS SERVICE IS FOR

This service is especially suitable for people who are experiencing:

  • Chronic relationship anxiety or emotional reactivity

  • Attachment insecurity or fear of abandonment

  • Emotional shutdown or numbness

  • Recurrent conflict patterns despite therapy

  • Trauma bonding or difficulty detaching from past relationships

  • Somatic symptoms related to relational stress

  • Persistent fear, shame, or hypervigilance in relationships

  • Difficulty trusting or feeling emotionally safe

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A man and a woman sitting on a beach under a blanket
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shallow focus photo of man and woman holding hands

Regulate

Calm the nervous system and reduce emotional reactivity and overwhelm.

Release

Gently release stored emotional stress and unresolved relational trauma.

Restore

Rebuild emotional safety, connection, and relational capacity.

OUR PROGRAMS ARE DESIGNED

For couples who want a clear roadmap and defined outcomes, our structured relationship programs provide focused support across communication, emotional safety, conflict repair, and long term connection.

Programs are ideal for couples preparing for marriage, repairing significant disconnection, or wanting deeper and more intentional relational growth.

TO CREATE LASTING CHANGE

WHAT WE FOCUS ON

Pre marriage counselling focuses on the foundations that support healthy long term relationships, including:

✅Communication styles and conflict patterns

✅Values and expectations

✅Attachment styles and emotional needs

✅Family of origin influences

✅Roles and responsibilities

✅Intimacy and trust

✅Emotional regulation and repair

We support couples in building emotional safety, shared understanding, and healthy communication habits. Our approach combines counselling, coaching, and trauma informed care to help couples move beyond surface level discussions into deeper relational insight.

When appropriate, we integrate trauma informed tools to address unresolved emotional experiences that may impact your future marriage. This supports emotional regulation, secure attachment, and long term relational stability.

OUR APPROACH

Understand the emotional and nervous system patterns driving conflict

Develop emotional safety and secure connection

Learn practical tools you can use outside of sessions

Address unresolved past experiences that impact present relationships

Build healthier long term relational habits

This approach allows couples to move beyond insight into meaningful and sustainable change.

WHAT MAKES OUR WORK DIFFERENT

Pre marriage counselling can be open ended or structured into a dedicated program for couples who want a clearer roadmap and defined outcomes before marriage.

Both options are available at Renewed Life, and we can help you decide which approach best suits your relationship during your discovery call.

AN IMPORTANT DISTINCTION

SCHEDULE YOUR 45-MIN

Are you ready to take the first step towards a more fulfilling relationship together? Let’s start with a 45-minute consultation. This call is an opportunity for both of you to ask any questions and learn about the unique strategies and techniques we can use to help achieve your relationship goals. There’s no pressure and no sales pitch—just clear, helpful information tailored to your needs as a couple.

INITIAL CONSULTATION