In this session, Toby and Sussan help you step back from individual arguments and begin to recognise the emotional pattern that keeps repeating in your relationship. Instead of analysing every conflict in isolation, you will be guided to see the cycle that pulls you both into predictable reactions. This shift helps couples move away from blaming each other and toward understanding how disconnection quietly builds over time.
You will learn:
• how to recognise your relationship pattern instead of blaming your partner
• why the cycle, not the person, keeps pulling you into conflict
• where emotional safety usually breaks down in your arguments