TESTIMONIALS

"I mentored Toby and Sussan for two years and they are the real deal… grounded, powerful and results driven. What they’ve built with Renewed Life Coaching & Counselling delivers deep transformation that lasts. No hype. No theory. Just proven frameworks applied with heart, truth, and excellence.”

— Joel Brown, Founder of Influential Coach & Addicted2Success

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WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT US

HOW WE COMPARE

HERE IS WHAT OTHERS

HAVE TO SAY ABOUT US

OUR PROGRAM OUTSHINES

TRADITIONAL THERAPY

Most therapists will meet you once a week, listen to your challenges, and send you home to “think about it.”
We don’t do that.

Dual-Therapist Advantage
You don’t get one therapist you get two specialists. Women work directly with Sussan, men with Toby. This ensures each partner has a safe space to speak openly while both coaches work together behind the scenes to guide the relationship forward.

Deep Trauma Release Work
Most people have past trauma, we don’t just talk about your past we help you release it from your nervous system. Our Forgiveness Framework and tailored trauma-release techniques go beyond surface-level conversations to create genuine emotional freedom.

Communication Transformation
With our Healthy Words & Habits framework, couples learn to replace destructive patterns with powerful, positive communication tools that build connection, not conflict.

Emergency Support When It Matters Most
Life doesn’t wait for your next appointment. Our crisis call support means you’re never alone when the big moments hit.

90-Minute Sessions That Prioritise Care, Not the Clock
Our sessions aren’t rushed. We don’t believe in cutting you off when things finally get real our sessions are designed for healing, not hurry.

Homework That Builds Your Relationship
Your growth doesn’t stop when the session ends. We provide SMS check-ins and tailored homework designed to strengthen your bond, keeping you accountable in your own private group chat.

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HERE IS WHAT OTHERS

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TO ROCK SOLID

FROM ON THE ROCKS

In just 6 months, we take couples from conflict and distance to trust, intimacy, and lasting connection. We help couples release the past, rebuild trust, and revive their connection—turning fragile relationships into unshakable partnerships.

YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM IS GETTING IN THE WAY OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP!

Your relationship is not failing because you are bad people. It is failing because your nervous system has been carrying unprocessed data for years.

Your nervous system records every experience. Every argument. Every rejection. Every moment you felt unsafe, unseen or unloved. It stores it like a file, and when something in the present reminds it of the past, it reacts. It pushes you to protect yourself. It shuts you down. It makes you defensive. It makes you withdraw. It makes you explode. It tries to keep you safe from what it believes is danger.

This is why you may feel

stuck in the same fights.

your partner feels like the enemy when you love them.

addictions start.

you may run, feel numb, want to avoid, or escape.

Your nervous system is not trying to ruin your relationship, It is trying to protect you from pain that was never healed.

When you heal the nervous system, your relationship changes.

You speak differently.

You listen differently.

You love differently.

You feel safe again.

And when you feel safe, connection becomes easy.

But protection and connection cannot exist at the same time.
You cannot build closeness while your body is trying to survive.

This is why talk therapy is not enough. You can talk for years, but if the nervous system is still holding the past, you will keep reacting the same way. The nervous system needs to release the old stored data so you can respond with clarity, safety, and love.

STILL NOT SURE

How long does the program last?

Our program typically spans 6 months, offering a structured approach to help couples rebuild their relationship and develop lasting changes, good news is that you can go faster if you like.

Is the discovery call really free?

Yes, the 30-minute discovery call is completely free. It’s an opportunity for us to understand your relationship goals and for you to learn about how our program can help.

Can I book individual sessions?

While our program is designed as a 6-month journey, we do offer individual therapy for both partners to address personal challenges alongside relationship coaching this is included as part of the program. we also have whats called addictional individual sessions at a reduced rate.

What happens if we need urgent support?

We offer crisis support to our clients. If an urgent situation arises, we’re here to provide the support you need, outside of regular sessions.

How are the sessions conducted?

Our sessions are 90 minutes long, allowing ample time to dive deep into the issues that matter most. We don’t rush the healing process.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

FOUNDERS & CEO

TOBY & SUSSAN ZAPPIA

Two therapists. Two perspectives. Stronger results.

We have been where you are. We married after six months and our beginning was turbulent even with all of our qualifications. We know what it is like to fight for connection, communication and healing and we use that lived experience to support you.

We are a husband and wife therapy team and you get both of us in to support you. A male and female perspective means clarity, balance and no bias.

We combine counselling, life coaching and NSR Therapy to help you release stored stress, break old patterns and build real and lasting change. Our approach is warm and practical and we want you to know that we are here for you.

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